Relationship Attitude #2: “I Will Strive to Live & Be in the Present”

ClockLife anywhere else is completely non-productive and irrelevant! If I live in the PAST, it holds me captive.  I am unable to be free from guilt, remorse, longings or fantasies. I blame others for my problems and I am a helpless victim!

If I live in the FUTURE, I never attain what I want. I will only have my unfulfilled dreams and anxious worries! I am also held captive in this place and am powerless over my life.

SOLUTION? I must live in the PRESENT because this is the only place where I can influence my future.  It is only today and only right now that can make a decision to impact my life.  I can be pro-active and make choices and decisions that will take me where I want to go.

Think about this MOMENT. What decision can you make and follow through on this this moment that will enrich your life and influence your Relationships? Living in the PRESENT is the key to
gaining POWER in LIFE!

LEARN from the Past, CHOOSE WISELY in the Present, and PREPARE for the Future!”  Thomas S. Monson

Check back soon for Relationship Attitude #3: “I love, accept and trust myself.”


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ABOUT CAROL: Carol has been married 46 years and has been a successful Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist for over 20.  As a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist & Workshop Presenter, Carol presents workshops for both Singles & Couples and has helped thousands of Singles & Couples FIND, CREATE & KEEP LASTING LOVE!  Carol is  now transitioning her Therapy Practice to Coaching so she can offer services without the stigma of having to be diagnosed with a Mental Disorder!  Why not let Carol help YOU Begin the Journey to the Relationship of your Dreams?





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