heartbullet Do you feel more like ROOMMATES than LOVERS?

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  • Are you WONDERING where the PASSION of your early days went?
  • Do you sometimes feel DISTANT and DISCONNECTED?
  • Are you too often on “different pages”?
  • Do you long for more ROMANCE?
  • Are you WORRIED where all this may be leading?

Most Couples don’t understand how their relationship could start out so amazing and then sometimes almost overnight turn into something so devastating. It’s almost like you woke up one morning to find that you were Sleeping with a Stranger!”

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If you want more than this, I invite you to:

join me in attending a

“Getting the Love You Want” Couples Workshop

***$200 Early-Bird Discount until October 1, 2015*** 

2015 Available Dates & Locations:

Friday/Saturday ~ November 20-21, 2015


Saturday/Sunday ~ December 5-6, 2015


To Begin the Journey to the Relationship of Your Dreams!

(See *DISCLAIMER at bottom)

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What you and your partner will GAIN during these 2 powerful days:

  • INSPIRATION about the hidden Purpose of your relationship!
  • CLARITY about who you and your partner really are!
  • RENEWED CONNECTION with each other!
  • MOTIVATION to work on your relationship! And finally,
  • HOPE that you can finally achieve the Relationship of your Dreams!

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In this 2-day romantic Workshop you & your partner will learn:

  • A Tool to feel HEARD and UNDERSTOOD by each other;
  • A way to gain COMPASSION & FEEL CLOSE again;
  • How you SABOTAGE getting your NEEDS met and WHAT TO DO instead;
  • KEY Strategies to REDUCE TENSION during a disagreement;
  • The TOOL you MUST use to END your POWER STRUGGLES;
  • Why TALKING about the “PROBLEM” seldom SOLVES it;
  • The real cause of your FIGHTING and HOW to STOP it;
  • A simple Process to get on the SAME PAGE in your relationship;
  • Ways to increase the FUN & EXCITEMENT;
  • STEPS to bring back that LOVIN’ FEELIN’;

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The Getting the Love You Want Workshop will benefit you if ANY of the below are true:

  • You want to make an already good relationship GREAT;
  • You are beginning a NEW relationship you want to KEEP;
  • You want to transform your relationship into a catalyst for Healing & Growth;
  • You are in a difficult relationship and want to RESOLVE LONG-STANDING CONFLICT;
  • You have tried Couples Therapy without much success;
  • You are near a break-up and want to decide if the relationship can be saved;
  • You are willing to commit to practicing new skills in your relationship;
  • You are a THERAPIST and want to improve your work with couples.

This workshop has been useful to married, engaged, separated, divorced, and generally, all couples. Studies have shown it compares to 6 months of weekly 90 min. therapy sessions.

Register NowFAQs:
Heart Logo Q: Why should we attend a Getting the Love You Want Workshop?

A: This workshop is comparable to 6 months of weekly 90-minute Imago Therapy sessions, and is one of the most important gifts you can give your relationship! During the 2 workshop days, you are immersed in powerful relationship experiences that have the potential to change you and your partner forever!  For most couples, the workshop will help you reconnect and, once again, feel the love that you may be wondering if you had lost over the years. Most partners will not be the same two people they were, walking in the door, as they will be when they leave.  Finally, because this experience cannot be duplicated in weekly therapy sessions, I encourage you to do what you need to do to make it possible to attend!


Heart Logo Q: How many couples have attended the Getting the Love You Want Workshop since it began, and how did it come about?

A: Tens of thousands of couples worldwide have attended the Imago Weekend Workshop for Couples over the past 27 years. It is called “Getting the Love You Want” because it is based on the NY TIMES BEST SELLER of the same title, written by Harville Hendrix, Phd, who developed this workshop over a 16 year period. Additionally, Dr. Hendrix has been a guest on the Oprah Winfrey show many times!


Heart Logo Q: What will we learn in the Workshop?

A: You are about to embark upon the beginning of a Journey, and so this Workshop becomes your Map.  When the workshop is over, you will leave with new understandings about yourselves, each other, as well as how you can create a deeply satisfying and long-lasting relationship with your partner.  The Journey really never ends, but you will have learned skills that can help the two of you achieve the kind of relationship that you have probably always dreamed of having.  Through exercises that you share privately with each other, you will explore some of your history and learn how it influences why you chose each other, as well as the reason you may both be drawn into a Power Struggle.

In fact, Imago views the Power Struggle as a normal, natural and necessary part of a committed relationship, as well as a great opportunity for both Partners to become more mature, loving and healthy. You will also learn that deep within your disagreements are hidden important clues about how you can transform your love into something more meaningful, richer and more lasting.  However, in order to accomplish this goal, you must know and practice vital skills that you will learn.   Finally, the last part of the workshop helps you discover ways to make sure your lives are full of fun, caring and romance.  By the end of the workshop, most couples leave feeling far more positive about the future of their relationship, as well as each other!

Register NowHeart Logo Q: What happens in the workshop?

A: During the workshop I will teach you how to use various Imago Dialogues and other skills.  These are powerful approaches to explore issues and restore lost connection.  You will watch couples who have volunteered to receive coaching in these Dialogues, and you will see the impact that Dialoging has upon them.  Then you and your partner will be given time to practice privately and apply them in your own relationship.  And don’t worry!  If you get stuck, there’s always help close by!  Finally, I have recently updated the workshop and added many fun, romantic and sensitive touches to enhance your learning and your experience!  


Heart Logo Q: What about our privacy? We aren’t sure we want to “air our dirty laundry!”

A: I often hear this concern from couples who are uncomfortable revealing personal information in front of others. That’s why the workshop is structured so that you can do your own personal work privately with your partner and just share with the group, if you feel comfortable doing so. I’ve also learned over the years that one of the most inspiring elements of the workshop is to see other couples going through the Imago processes during the demonstration and to hear their stories. You suddenly realize that you are NOT alone!

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“Getting the Love You Want” Couples Workshop

***$200 Early-Bird Discount until October 1, 2015*** 

2015 Available Dates & Locations:

Friday/Saturday ~ November 20-21, 2015


Saturday/Sunday ~ December 5-6, 2015


and Begin the Journey to the Relationship of Your Dreams!

(See *DISCLAIMER at bottom)Heart Logo


We did not have high expectations for this workshop helping us. However, we found nothing could have been further from the truth. We gained so much knowledge of ourselves and a wealth of information to help us along this journey. It has totally changed our perspective and insight into our marriage. We are now so excited about the future of our marriage. This could have not been possible without Carol and this workshop.” D.S. Fresno, CA

“We are so pleased we came!! Both of us feel confident this workshop will have a very positive impact on our relationship!” Q.T. Phoenix, AZ

“This workshop was eye-opening!” M.O. Hanford, CA

“This was a safe, comfortable and valuable experience which has given me and my spouse tools to improve our relationship!” P.M. Novato, CA

“The workshop was both a growth experience and a lot of fun!” R.Y. – San Jose, CA

“We have been in Imago Therapy for 6 months, but the workshop took our skills to a new level and energized me about the possibilities for growth!” C.P. Fresno, CA

“The workshop was useful, accessible & revealing!” C.S. Novato, CA

“I came with a guarded attitude and left with a totally new understanding for myself and the woman I love. It has given me new insight into getting the love I want and is a MUST for a relationship in any stage of life!” J.E. Fresno, CA

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Carol A Anderson

ABOUT CAROL: Carol has been married over 45 years and a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist for over 23 years. Over the years, as a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist & Workshop Presenter, she has helped thousands find, create and keep the Relationship of their DREAMS! Why not let her help YOU Begin the Journey to the Relationship of YOUR Dreams!


“Carol provided an excellent presentation and was very real, honest and helpful!” J.R. North Carolina

“Carol’s communication style is absolutely suited for Imago. She is warm and safe and made us all feel so comfortable.” K.V. Fresno, CA

“Carol was highly engaging, supportive & knowledgeable.” C.S. Novato, CA

“I appreciate Carol for how much she shared of herself, her positive energy, authenticity, professional wisdom and experience.” R.Y. – San Jose, CA

“Carol was gentle, insightful, open and loving.” C.F. – Fresno, CA

Carol was awesome! I’m really excited about this opportunity to make a better life and love for myself!” D.H. – Modesto, CA

“Carol is a knowledgeable, yet fun presenter.” M.A. – Fresno, CA

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*DISCLAIMER: Results may vary depending on individual factors, such as open-mindedness, motivation and other personal circumstances. While there are no guarantees associated with this workshop, couples who actively practice the skills they learn, on a regular basis, typically show positive and lasting results, similar to those described here. If you have questions or concerns, please contact Carol directly to discuss them at the “Contact” link above.

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